Monday, February 14, 2011


I am not big on Valentines Day. The thought of a commercial holiday where I am to show my special someone I love her with presents and flowers seems shallow and forced.  I know my wife feels the same way.  So sorry Hallmark, you won't be making money off of me this year.

However I do have a special someone in this world, and since the world seems to think today is a good day to show their love to theirs, I will show my love to mine.  I share it here because what girl can resist showing off this romantic crap to her girlfriends? (am I right, fellas?) So here I sit waxing romantic in front of the whole universe of my blog readers (all 4 of em) and share my love with you Dave style.  Sorry about that, but when I leaned in and called you a sucker right after our wedding vows it was - well -  it was cause you have to deal with stuff like this.  hehe.. sucker.

My dearest wife,

My wife.  Ain't she a beauty?
The day I met you was the day I became yours.

I didn't know it then of course, but when I look back,  I can't help but think that the moment I first laid eyes on you outside that movie theatre in Burlington Ontario I knew I was in for something special (we saw Zorro so I know *that* wasn't it).  It took a month for me to hold your hand for the first time, and only a few months more to know I would never be able to let it go again (except of course to wash the dishes and do the laundry).

Sweetheart, hold up your left hand.  Look at your third finger.  See the diamond ring?  That ring is, with out a doubt, the best thing I have ever purchased (and I've bought some cool stuff - have you seen my bike?).  Putting it on your finger was the easiest decision and the smartest move I ever made.   The fact that you let me put it there amazes me to this day.  I don't know what I did to sucker you into agreeing to spend your life with me - God must like me or something - but it has been the greatest gift I have ever known (seriously, what Valentines Day heart shaped box of chocolates is ever going to top that one? Suck on it Hallmark - I got my top prize already).

I don't know where I would be if God didn't put me into your life. All I know is that every time I look into your eyes I know that I don't want to be anywhere else but where I am.  In your life, by your side, holding your hand, sharing your world.

So Happy Valentines Day, my dearest wife. I love you.

P.S.  You cook up a pretty good kid too :)


Debbie said...

Happy Valentines Day and such to you too!

I love you!

Unknown said...

wow that is awesome!

Sheyna said...

Dave, This is so sweet! I read it to my best friend on the phone and we both cried. :) Love it and love your sweet wife too. Thanks for sharing her with us in Lenoir. Happy Valentine's Day to your family!

Duffman said...

Wow Dave. I think you are more of a poet than I am. I think it was a ll the Daveisms (funny asides) that made it so cool.

BTW I like the fact I'm part of an exclusively elite group - reader of your blog. Ok, well... exclusive anyway!

idajo2 said...

Your beautiful wife received a thoughtful, sincere and heartfelt declaration of love from a man who, obviously, loves . . honors .. and adores her! Dave, you ARE blessed to have her in your life . . and she, my dear, is very blessed to have you in her life. In my sixty-plus years on the planet, I've known very few men secure enough in a woman's love to share with such candor - Daveisms notwithstanding. Happy Valentine's Day to you both.


Kendra said...

Aww Dave! You're're very lucky to have her :) She's lucky to have you too - Happy Valentine's Day to you both!!